I am the mom of a drug addict who is incarcerated at the moment for again drug use through other means, theft, forgery, fraud, she had been thru rehab once and was clean for 3 years and got married,had a beautiful son which is 2 years old and relapsed thus incarcerated. Does anyone ever get clean and stay there and what did it take to get to that point? I am so afraid my daughter will not get to see her baby grow up He stays with us ( grandma, grandpa) three or four days a week and with the father the rest of the time, which also attended the same rehab for alcohol abuse at the time, he has already relapsed before my daughter but has been clean since. He is no golden child believe me. I just would like some positive thoughts or advice for some similar incidences.